Seventysomething empty-nesters are spending 1,000 yuan on silicone love dolls. The 70-year-old man has two children who have rarely been home since his wife died of illness three years ago, according to reports. Mr. Li said he was introduced to one last year and "got along well at the time." Once he suggested having sex, but the other person said, "It's not serious to think about it at your age." So he bought a sex doll.
According to incomplete statistics, spread in the United States about 2000 adult products stores, a year's shipments of more than 100,000 pieces. If we walked around the cities of anime, you could see shops all over the streets, big and small, filled with sex dolls, including the anime tpe Doll. I searched the Internet for "sex dolls" and found 25,700. There are also plenty of sex dolls for sale online. If there are sales, there must be a market for them. Unmarried young people, single aristocrats and even migrant workers drifting in different places are all potential consumers. Empty-nesters cannot be excluded from this group. Because "sex" is part of life, they have the right to enjoy life. Numbers are cold, but behind every number there is a story that makes people feel.
The empty-nester's story has caused intense controversy on the Internet. Understand and support the elderly, think the elderly are not serious, everything. To sum up, there are two aspects: first, how to guarantee the old age life of the elderly; second, how the public views sex.
With the accelerated aging of the population in China, there will be more and more problems for the elderly and empty-nesters, and sex is not an open topic. All things considered, buying a sex doll might be the best choice. However, in the face of the old man's choice, the Internet exploded. In the final analysis, it is a matter of consciousness. In conventional wisdom, sex dolls are a development of social malformations, a way for someone to be bored, to exist in a dark corner and not be seen. Especially old people, if they use sex dolls, they are old and naughty.
What needs to be made clear is that sex dolls solve the normal physiological needs of this group, it has nothing to do with social morality, and has nothing to do with "abnormal". Instead, sex dolls solve certain social problems and eliminate some possible social hazards. In the face of them, why not change our concept, less weird eyes and controversy, more understanding and support?
When a large group of people integrate into society because their normal physiological needs cannot be solved, whether the public or social managers always be on guard against them and "take precautions"?
The old man's experience is a touchstone. It tests the public's attitude towards this sensitive social issue. After all, it is necessary to face it. Instead of being shy and holding a lute half concealment, it is better to open our mind, open our mind, and learn to accept and support it. We believe that as long as we have a correct understanding of this problem from the perspective of consciousness, many problems will be solved quickly, and similar disputes will become fewer and fewer until they are eliminated.